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    For those interested you can find alternatives to Discord and any other software on AlternativeTo.net But here are some of the standouts I have found:

    • Armada https://armada.buzz/: End to End Encrypted Messaging with Discord Import and similar UI, comms for gaming, Voice and Video Calling, and App and Desktop Streaming at full capability. No Phone # or Email required. Can be self hosted and is Open Source. Win/Linux/Mobile versions Ready to go now.
    • Fluxer https://fluxer.app/: As the webpage states “Free and open source chat for friends, groups, and communities, with text, voice, video, screen sharing, and self-hosting.” and while functional, they have ramped up development to add guides for self hosting and mobile clients that aren’t released yet, and have an ambitious roadmap on their blog. You have to use 3rd party bridging apps for importing Discord Servers.
    • Stoat (Formally Revolt) https://stoat.chat/: Another Open Source alternative that you can host your own, but at this time servers aren’t connected and they want to do it through Federation, or in other words like email servers, so users can browse public servers. They are early days on the desktop and video sharing as well but they users like it so much and development team is so reachable that donations more than pay for the community service and development. Uses an open web app so anywhere you can get a modern browser to work has access.
    • VoltChat https://voltagechat.app/: A platform similar to the previously mentioned Armada, but using its own decentralized federated platform.
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      I don’t want to sound like a downer, but I’m skeptical about Armada: never heard of it before, repo created last June, tons of features implemented in that short span and already “ready to go”… Seems like it has been heavily vibe-coded.

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      Going to add one more: Steam.

      Steam has a built-in voice chat and chat channels for your friends.

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    It shouldn’t be up to discord or any other internet entity to verify the age of its users.

    Parents. Parents should be monitoring their child’s Internet usage.

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      The internet will become ID verified to protect the kids or terrorism or what ever other reason they feel like. It won’t solve the problems it is claimed to help. But if you have unauthorized opinions against government backed genocides then you are marked as a terrorist.

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        Listen we can’t have people thinking they can have some sort of responsibility to function in the world. That might give them the bright idea that they can start judging for themselves the state of the world and to demand some kind of accountability. They might even clue in to the problems that the tech monopolies are purposely causing, along with the social ills that come with it.

        We can’t have that at all.

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      They should, but they’re exhausted and they can’t even be bothered to read or help with homework so this will go badly. The only ones winning are the predators.

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        they’re exhausted and they can’t even be bothered to read or help with homework

        The only ones winning are the predators

        Have you ever thought that maybe these two things are linked somehow?

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        And who’s fault is that they’re so tired?

        Btw, has discord ever done anything to help a minor asking for help?

        And how about known predators actually getting jailed?

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    The same day I saw Discord’s age verifying message, I uninstalled the app and moved to Matrix (to be fair, I was already on Matrix)

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    Those people might be unhappy, but most of them will still refuse to move from the platform.

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        That’s what I said about facebook, then Zuck fucked it with his algorithms until I only saw ads and crap, then I left — after giving away some level of information to dipshit.

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      Yep, I opted for different alternatives like Stoat or matrix but without results. Only one friends switched to Stoat.

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      because if most people aren’t significantly inconvenienced they won’t join a different platform, and if there aren’t your friends on a different platform it’s really hard to leave.

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    Part of me thinks is this just performative nonsense that will always have enormous holes in it, like Prohibition.

    Scanning “your” face to prove your age is really just scanning a face.

    But I also worry about successive noose tightening.

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      Nah. They want to be an essential service for games.
      Verified users of appropriate age.
      Integrated game chat.
      Integrated game VoIP.
      All appropriate-for-age.

      Can’t develop your own moderation? Just pay discord.

      So many companies will pay massive sums to outsource chat/VoIP/age-verification/moderation to discord.
      And discord is already the “goto” gaming community provider.

      Oh, and shop stuff.
      Gift (buy) a friend a cool cosmetic through discord. Already has the community connections. Just needs the reason for games to tightly integrate it (moderation, chat, VoIP, age verification).

      It is absolutely a positioning move

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        Forums were also outsourced to reddit. Riot did it with league of legends. Why moderate a forum when you have unpaid reddit mods doing it for you?

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      Part of me agrees and the other part thinks it’s going to go the way of the automobile.

      Everyone needs a license, issued from big brother, to use the public service.

      Or else!

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        People using Discord badly are very unlikely to kill random bystanders.

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          We could go back and forth all day on this, but just watch out for the government trying to claim “you need an ID for this because the anonymous people online can hurt you”.

          They’ll find a way to justify it, by some string of twisted logic that makes it equivalent to killing someone in an accident. It’ll probably be about protecting the kids, it’s always about protecting the kids.

          Oh well, I think we’re on the same side here. I joined the EFF!

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            “The government”, because only the US exists and matters…

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              It’s even worse here in the EU, which plans to completely ban entire websites if you don’t submit a police ID. So yeah, the government. It’s been happening everywhere.

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    Shout out to Fluxer.

    Still don’t think its quite ready but its chugging along and its been fun following the progress. I know they have some big updates inbound. Hopefully people actually give it a shot and flip over to Fluxer.

    I’d also add that the “Proton” subscrition equivalent - “Plutonium”, is a better value proposition. But I will admit, they still need to clear a few hurdles before even I feel completely comfortable ditching Discord.

    But its Open Source and it has a self-hosting option, along with the Quality of Life you expect from Discord in terms of the app layout, screen sharing, etc.

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      Open source is the way. It always amuses me when people move from one proprietary system to a different one, since the new one always ends up having the same issues.

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        That’s why I think we should start teaching FOSS Linux as the first operating systems Kids are exposed to. It’s neutral ground in the sense that no one company owns and controls it, and the things they learn will help them understand why things are the way they are, not just what the latest marketing-hype “feature” is.

        Someone I know went to a university that ran off Linux and I’m jealous of the comprehensive Linux 101 they got. It took me years to learn some of that stuff.

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        The new one usually won’t have the same issues at first, but they’ll have the same opportunities and motivations that lead to the issues. People will see a different provider and say they’re not doing the bad things, and they’ll be correct for a few years maybe, but then it becomes a struggle to get them to switch to the next thing. This whole problem would mostly be solved with open-source alternatives instead.

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          The thing with age verification is that it’s a legal requirement, so they’re all going to have to do it.

          Running an online service with a lot of users is very expensive, too. All these proprietary services eventually realise that they need revenue in order to continue operating. That’s one of the reasons why decentralized, federated services are the way to go - everyone runs their own small community, so there’s no one company or person that has to cover an enormous bill.

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        hmm I thought they leaned relatively against AI slop. Wouldn’t this be because they were working on it privately or something for quite some time?

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            This commit was the refactor commit from the private dev flow to the open source repo. The process basically added a lot of files and deleted a bunch as well. it was long overdue but I wouldn’t expect constant 11m line code changes

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              You really don’t understand what 11m lines of code is. Only a collective of humans over many years can create 11m lines of code. It is an absolute batshit insane amout of code.

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                yea 11m changes is quite a bit at once but, I wouldn’t expect a constant change like that. After all, the monorepo itself is a little over 3m lines, 1.37m of it being lang/locale files for every language for its front end, 600k of it is comments, and 1.5m is the rest of it.

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                  Wow, I thought the actual functional part was around 1m. I am going to check the loc to see if it makes sense in my second language, LLMs are pretty consistent on their translation errors.

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            It’s obviously some kind of code reorganization, restructuring or reformating, don’t be paranoid

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              A refactoring would have a relatively similar number of subtractions as additions. This is almost entirely additions. This is not just refactoring.

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                Not necessarily. Huge additions without matching deletions often happen during restructurings like vendorizing dependencies, importing external packages, generating bindings, or migrating private repos into a monorepo. In these cases new code canbbe introduced to repository and there will be no corresponding deletions in commit history.

                I’ve did similar restructurings myself, eg. Making automatically generated resources static

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                  You have no idea what 11 million likes of code is do you? LibreOffice is 11m, Android is 12m, MySQL is 10m. Those projects took years to code not 9 months. I am going to have to ask you to stay in your lane, and I pray that is not Software Engineering.

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                  Yeah, some projects also ditch external dependencies to make their own

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          Matrix is a bit of a shit show

          How so?

          and also isn’t a discord alternative to begin with

          It absolutely is. A “Space” is the equivalent to a Discord “server”. It’s not perfect and polished, but it does the job. I’ve been using it rather than Discord with my gaming group for a year now.

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            I wouldn’t call it a shit show, they were first in E2E encrypted collaborative messaging platforms and get all the hits. Moderation turned out to be incompatible with E2E encryption. People kicked out of channels can still decrypt because keys revocation hasn’t been made.

            Matrix server is a resource hog and a mess, and the protocol has never took off to spark alternative implementations.

            Encryption doesn’t scale well for big channels.

            They got many things right, but got crippled by many things they couldn’t possibly predict.

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            The entire concept of it is a shit show. It’s the prime example of anti user design.

            It’s a functional system, with the entire concept of user friendly design and non power user being ignored.

            It’s made by power users and engineers for power users and engineers. It’s fantastic for what it is.

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      I’ve been eyeing Fluxer for quite a while now. Once they roll out the update where they want to overhaul and streamline the selfhosting part, my friends and I are going to switch

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        Is this substantiated?

        At this point for many projects it’s now depressingly, a matter of degree.

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          It’s not, people are objectively being retarded about this. They merged in the actual prod code base from the closed private repo that had the entire small team working on it for months. Into the open source public repo when as the first major refactor and functionally went from preview build to first real public beta.

          A few million lines of code from a small team and a number of one of contributors over months of work on a brand new project is perfectly god damn normal.

          The repo went from elevator pitch to real product in one go cause the work had been done else where.

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            Two commits today, presumably after this merge you talk about, +12k, -27k. In one day. You think humans can do that? Yesterday, 22 commits and I opened a random one: +15k, -9k. Just put this supposed human effort into an actual standard like Matrix instead of vibing your own.

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          Look at the git and tell me. One guy, contributing 1.5m lines of code is not human made. It’s a matter of time before it falls apart and becomes unmaintainable.

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    Anyone looking for a lightweight self hosted alternative to discord might want to check out sharkord. Its less about large communities and more about a private space to chat with friends, that you have complete privacy and control with.

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      I’ve finally gotten off my ass and set up matrix and jabber to pilot with my friend and family. I’ve threatened everyone with IRC, but I really wouldn’t mind going back to hosting IRC servers…

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      The “unofficial” Arch Linux discord server is inviting/encouraging their members to move to their Fluxer instance. Hopefully that’s a trend that will start.

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        Fluxer has been an adequate replacement for Discord for my TTRPG group. Been using it since March and it has gotten better every month.

        I have no illusions that they may one day become as shitty, but for now it works. And the fact that it’s open source and self host able gives me some hope.

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          Just spent 10 minutes fooling around with fluxer via the web ui. Was able to invite a dice bot, but couldn’t get it to respond. (Also it’s very D&D-specific, but that’s a separate complaint)

          Looks so much like Discord

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          Since it is opensource and self-hostable, there will always be some non-shitty fork around once it gets popular. At least it is very likely.

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            The mobile app has been their main focus past month or so. It just came to the app store beta literally yesterday, before that you had to download the apk from their github. It’s come a looong way and is extremely usable.

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    I recommend Stoat, it can be selfhosted, open source, there is no shady company behind it, and it works well. There even is top-notch noise filtering, which I found very important for voice calls.

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      I really don’t understand how a chat app for gamers became so big in the software development community. It’s such a poor choice, especially for support. Nothing is indexed in search engines, and people can’t see messages unless they join. I’ve even seen some projects use Discord for bug tracking. It’s woefully inadequate for that.

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        before Discord there was Teamspeak 3, Ventrilo and mIRC. Discord at the time brought file sharing, video calls and more polished UI at the time when all of it was not found on TS, but Skype and facebook messenger was around. Me and my friends used TS, but jumped to Discord because it was better almost in every way (apart from sound codecs). If TS devs had not been so oblivious and inovated fast enough, we would have stayed

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          At work we’re migrating from Google Chat to Slack, and there’s a bunch of things I already miss. There’s a lot of strange UI issues in Slack that aren’t an issue in any other competing products.

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        My impression—I don’t use it myself and my few experiences touching it have not impressed me—is that the major selling point is that it provided several different forms of communication that gamers wanted to use in a single package. Like, instant messaging, VoIP, video calls, chat, etc.

        You could set up all of these individually, but this was free and all-in-one, is managed, and it didn’t require much technical expertise to use. Any user with an account has access to all the components.

        And it didn’t cost anything to set up.

        If I were going to set up, say, a VoIP server, I’d probably use, oh, Mumble. I’d get my own VPS for it, which would cost something. I’d only have VoIP at the end of that. If I wanted to use say, text-based communication or have some mechanism for sharing files, I’d have to go cobble something together from other components.

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          Take a look at this absurdly long list of apps. How many have been created at this point and half of them have overlap with a quarter of the list. And yet, from my experience, every single one finds a unique way to fall short of the basic functionality I expect from Discord. And I’m definitely not counting anything available through Nitro.

          All of the ones that claim to be full Discord replacements have had incredibly difficult and multi-layered setups that don’t follow any regard for the ability to easily remove if it doesn’t work for you. Their instructions will start with ordering a VPS or will assume that you want to host on the public internet first or do wacky stuff like setup their own reverse proxy without me asking.

          Mattermost was almost there. It even has voice and video sharing. But they don’t have voice lobbies. (Not counting the janky plugin) They all just find something that makes my friends not want to use it. Many of these projects are like 2-3 features away from being able to convince my friends to use them but until that day comes, the Dicksword will win.

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        It annoys me that a lot of Actual Budget stuff is on their Discord. Thankfully they have documentation on github and their website.

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        Because it has a lot of good tools for finding what you need on an intuitive platform focused around communities similar to Reddit.

        Let’s be real Discord is popular because it does a lot of things really well.

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          it has a lot of good tools for finding what you need

          As a moderator and the primary troubleshooter for a 12k member discord server, no the fuck it does not.

          new user joins

          Hey, how do I X?

          It’s in pins.

          new user joins

          Hey, how do I Y?

          It’s in pins.

          new user joins

          Hey, how do I Z?

          It’s in pins.

          Kill me. Or bring back old-school forums. One of the two.

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            Kill me. Or bring back old-school forums. One of the two.

            A common thing you could read in old-school forums was “have you tried the search”, so I guess that leaves us with one option.

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            What your talking about has nothing to do with the tools and everything to do with stupid users never reading or using resources available.

            Same way 1% users actually read server rules.

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              I would posit that if the tools don’t make the resources readily available and obvious (like a pinned forum thread that you literally have to scroll past to make a new thread), then the tools aren’t good.

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              The users found the Discord because they searched for their problem and the result was a recommendation to join the Discord.

              If the answer had been indexable by search engines, the search engine would have found the answer and given it to the user. No need to even log in.

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              you search and go through the results. read a long one 3 screen lengths down the scroll and it was useless. go back to the search and it’s back at the top again. scroll more and question if they are even in the same order.

              go to the pins and even though you saw it there yesterday its gone. look again later and it turns out sometimes it just takes loger to load them.

              go to read the rules but then find out that sometimes they cant be viewed on android and you have to go to desktop to do it. epecially when the server has a bunch of things to click in acknowledgment before the channels show up.

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    2 days ago

    My country was getting age verification before the others but yesterday it just stopped for me, no idea why