I’m beginning to accept that I may never be in a relationship again. There are life expectations I have for myself, some admittedly selfish, but really, the idea of having to deal with another grownup who is as obstinate as I am has left me disillusioned about relationships. But I want to have kids. I want to be a father. For women, its fairy easy, go to a sperm bank, pick your choice, get the procedure done and you are on your way. What is the process for dudes? I believe its going to involve a surrogate, but where does one get a donor egg and what not? I am not looking to have a relationship with an egg donor or the surrogate, just me and the kids.


Lots of women do this without being judged for it. Why should OP be judged for it?
You really think women aren’t judged for being a single mother?
Not like single fathers are judged. Women are judged because people think they should have a partner. Men are judged because people think they are incompetant, psychopathic and dangerous.
Rightfully so! Most of them have killed their wives anyway.
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