This happened just an hour ago or so. Went in to a local grocery shop and grabbed some carrots, oranges and bananas. Paid in cash and went out my way to put everything in my bicycle’s panniers and… there she was going in her own bicycle. It was like in the Fellowship of the Ring when the hobbits see Arwen. At that very instant I saw her face my jaw dropped, almost literally, and I think she noticed I was mesmerized or something because she did a gesture of like trying to look my way but doing a gesture of “what a creep” or something. After 5 seconds or so she was gone and most probably I won’t ever see her again.
How do you get over something like that? I’m still so mesmerized I can’t believe a human being so ridiculously gorgeous can exist in the same plane as an ugly weirdo like me.
Well, it took me 15 years, but I married her
next time whip out your dick and fap. women love it when you fap for them.
/s #####please don’t do this.
Oh you become an adult that is aware of the fact that beauty means nothing in the face of love and support. Over time, that beauty becomes a deterrent to your needs.
Improve your self esteem lol
That is funny to me; I love seeing beautiful people but they don’t stun me like that, I can’t really be attracted to someone I’ve not met. And I couldn’t define a “most beautiful” because there are just so many different ways to be beautiful.
See more of them. There’s a lot of pretty people.
Go to any big city, preferably in a different country or area where people look ever so slightly different or have different fashion. You’ll see that there’s basically infinite many beautiful people.
- don’t ask for advice about this on the internet
I have met enough very attractive people with terrible opinions that, for me, beauty and desire are largely decoupled. Get to know her first- she might make getting over her very easy.
And if it doesn’t, you’ve still won!
Just be happy that beauty like that can exist and that you can appreciate it.
Also he left the relationship at it’s highest point.
It was in college and I sat down next to her in the library. I did my best to ask her out but she shot me down.
2 years later we were in the same genetics class and I sat down next to her the first day. We ended up being assigned as lab partners much to her dismay. She immediately requested a new partner. Professor told her to “Either work with him or take an F.”
4 weeks later we were counting fruit flies and she invited back to her place for dinner. After dinner she pounced on me (she has a different version of the story).
Couple weeks later the genetics professor caught us in the stairwell kissing before class and about died laughing.
We got married a year later after she graduated. Been married for 25 years now.
Genetics professor doing his thing, counting love flies 😄
What I’m hearing is:
Yes, but you DID shoot me down that first time, honey.
That has come in handy over the years.
She clearly felt you had genetics she could count on!
That so awesome!
Appreciate her beauty and remember it is ephemeral. With a few exceptions, all of us look mid at best by 50, let alone 70. Beauty is beautiful to look at. I appreciate beauty, but I wouldn’t trade my wife for the most beautiful woman in the world.
My uncle has a way of putting this: no matter how great a woman is, someone, somewhere, is sick of her shit. I generously assume he also meant for that to apply with the genders reversed.
For guys, no matter how “him” someone is there is some sick of his “bo”.
I think the only thing to do is put a stick in the spoke of your front wheel.
Hear me out.
You’re already head over heels, you might as well make it literal. Also, if she comes over to help, out was meant to be. If not, she was probably a terrible person.
Edit: remember - no matter how hot they are, there’s always someone who’s sick and tired of putting up with their shit.
You learn from your mistake - Do you feel like you should have struck when the iron was hot? Next time you feel that feeling, strike when the iron is hot. Do you feel like you gawked and made her feel uncomfortable? Next time smile and see if it’s recipricated. Do you feel like you are not worthy of an attractive partner? Work on yourself and use this experience as fuel to be better.
Uh, don’t do that. That girl has loads of guys trying to “strike when the iron is hot” every day.
Be lucky there is beauty in this world, but don’t try to appropriate it just because you saw it, or you might destroy it.
What a defeatist attitute to have about the world, I hope you break free; as for me, I’ll keep persuing things I desire.
I have had loads of opportunities and more, but I have never ever harassed a girl just because I like her looks.
That’s just creepy.
It might be a fine line (IDK) but don’t be a creep.
When did I advocate for harassment? When did I advocate for being creepy? What a bizarre line of thinking.
If you make people uncomfortable, well, that’s creepy (your first post talks about it without flinching), and maybe you don’t do that.
The problem is that creeps think they aren’t creepy, and just needs to “find the right thing to do/say” like it’s some sort of puzzle. Don’t be that person is all I’m saying!
I get over other people by remembering they will probably forget my existence within 30 seconds to 5 mins and I’ll never cross their mind again
You write a blues song
Exactly. An 800 page book also works.
