If it’s any consolation, I’m a woman and get the all the same bullshit. I put effort in, I read bios, I give thoughtful answers and openers…
Half my conversations are them asking to fuck, a third are just doa and don’t respond and whatever’s left is the driest most unengaging conversation you could possibly imagine.
When I do find someone worth chatting with long term I end up having to set everything up only for them to either ghost or just fade away through text over the course of a few days.
Do you only swipe right on the really hot looking guys? Cos then that’s to be expected, unfortunately. I could imagine that going for rather average looking guys might help. Cos the average guy ain’t getting a lot of matches, so we are happy over basically any match at all, let alone one that puts effort into a conversation.
I’m bi and when I match, I match with all types of people. I’m also demisexual and need a connection to really take notice of someone’s attractiveness. Like I can tell when someone is objectively attractive but i could really care less. Body type is tertiary to compatibility for me.
If it’s any consolation, I’m a woman and get the all the same bullshit. I put effort in, I read bios, I give thoughtful answers and openers…
Half my conversations are them asking to fuck, a third are just doa and don’t respond and whatever’s left is the driest most unengaging conversation you could possibly imagine.
When I do find someone worth chatting with long term I end up having to set everything up only for them to either ghost or just fade away through text over the course of a few days.
It’s soul crushing. I hardly even bother anymore.
Do you only swipe right on the really hot looking guys? Cos then that’s to be expected, unfortunately. I could imagine that going for rather average looking guys might help. Cos the average guy ain’t getting a lot of matches, so we are happy over basically any match at all, let alone one that puts effort into a conversation.
I’m bi and when I match, I match with all types of people. I’m also demisexual and need a connection to really take notice of someone’s attractiveness. Like I can tell when someone is objectively attractive but i could really care less. Body type is tertiary to compatibility for me.