Link : https://vger.to/lemmy.world/c/rape

I’m a french feminist guy. I created a safe space for all Survivors and their loved ones, exactly like r/rape on Reddit. BUT, btw, not EXACLTY. r/rape is pretty wild and had bad moderation. r/SexualAsssault is ALSO weird and sometimes wild. r/MenGetRapedToo is too little to become one day a first-class resource on Reddit.

So, I want make my Lemmy community useful for all users. What are the things you want to see in it ? I’ve already decided to add links and ressources redirecting to RAINN.org, hotlines, and other useful helps. What can I do After this ?

  • printf("%s", name);@piefed.blahaj.zoneEnglish
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    8 hours ago

    Copy-pasting the comment I made on your deleted post just now, so take it with a grain of salt if the below excerpt no longer applies. 😊

    It will, to say the least, be interesting to see where this goes! Good luck and thank you for taking on this endeavor!

    Depending on the severity of the behavior and whether the person has repeatedly caused problems, disciplinary action may range from a warning to a complete ban from the community.
    I don’t quite see the reason for instituting a “warning” step as a precursor to a ban, in the context of guarding the community against predators, that is. If you also meant to include other misbehavior than predation, I digress. All in all, I don’t believe in “discussing” indecency on support forums. Quotation marks, because to me, such discussions are already saying, “it’s okay, but don’t do it again.” Carefully consider if that’s the message you want to be sending!

    Also: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ClY_XjoiYXc

    The trans communities on for instance (pun intended) piefed.blahaj.zone have fantastic safeguarding rules, which you might want to have a look at for inspiration! 🙂

    Thanks and good luck!

    • Jean-Noël Hurpeau@lemmy.worldOP
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      8 hours ago

      What I meant was that if it’s just a simple mistake or a lack of knowledge, I’m not going to immediately rule out someone who might also need help. Thanks for the resources—I’ll check them out as soon as possible!