Basically just something people say that indicates a position indirectly, like how seperatists from a given region might always say they’re from [region] and not [country] or how trump supporters call AI “SI” now.

  • zoloftt@lemmy.world
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    17 hours ago

    You know what’s funny about that? A lot of my hetero friends also say partner.

    I started using it because it removes the baggage that gendered terms carry. My wife is my best friend. I like to do everything with her. We split chores pretty evenly.

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      6 hours ago

      A lot of my hetero friends also say partner…

      …in my region of English speakers.

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      8 hours ago

      yeah we started using it because we were past dating, but not married. it seemed appropriate.

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        6 hours ago

        Yet another use case! Not sure I’ve heard it that way in my area, not much anyway. Even us old folks say “girlfriend”/“boyfriend” if unmarried.