I agree it is a poor question, but not for the reasons you say. Mainly because it is clear different women have different opinions on the subject. A women with a push up bra and very little coverage clearly wants them to be noticed. While a women with a regular bra and a normal tshirt may not.
And of course there is the factor of who is noticing. Some only want to be noticed by certain people, while others want to be noticed by evryone.
There is no simple answer.
I think the point, and usefulness, of this question is to get the many different kinds of answers. As you point out, it’s a nuanced social issue. It would help some people to hear all of the perspectives so they can adjust their behavior appropriately.
Or just talk and not “adjust” shit. It’s sad that every conversation over anything mentioning women without fail derails into complaints about men and total misandry.
It’s a perfectly innocuous question. What is with the constant gatekeeping, of you even mention women you’re always gonna get some rando trying to wedge themselves in and calling people sexist or whatever. It’s ok to talk about things, if they don’t like it why don’t they just fuck off?
I agree it is a poor question, but not for the reasons you say. Mainly because it is clear different women have different opinions on the subject. A women with a push up bra and very little coverage clearly wants them to be noticed. While a women with a regular bra and a normal tshirt may not.
And of course there is the factor of who is noticing. Some only want to be noticed by certain people, while others want to be noticed by evryone. There is no simple answer.
I think the point, and usefulness, of this question is to get the many different kinds of answers. As you point out, it’s a nuanced social issue. It would help some people to hear all of the perspectives so they can adjust their behavior appropriately.
Or just talk and not “adjust” shit. It’s sad that every conversation over anything mentioning women without fail derails into complaints about men and total misandry.
It’s a perfectly innocuous question. What is with the constant gatekeeping, of you even mention women you’re always gonna get some rando trying to wedge themselves in and calling people sexist or whatever. It’s ok to talk about things, if they don’t like it why don’t they just fuck off?