• nymnympseudonym@piefed.social
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    2 days ago

    As a hetero, female-breast-fascinated male who tries not to be pervy it seems like an honest question. Consciously or not, sometimes I’m going to be glancing at your boobs. Doesn’t mean I am consciously fantasizing; more like a shiny object I couldn’t ignore. But as a person who wants to be empathetic, I want to know how this comes across to the other person.

    Legit AF IMO

    • Cherry@piefed.social
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      It comes across as pervy…even if you don’t try to be…it is.

      If you were in prison and some big guy started looking at your bum how would you feel?

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        2 days ago

        Asking how I would feel is a bit of a pervy question, can you explain why it’s legitimate?

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        Is this the only mode of existence you possess? Is hating men the only aspect of your character? Is that your whole personality- blaming people and admonishing them? It’s fucking sad.