For me it’s time signatures in music. I grew up playing instruments, played in several orchestras, etc. But no matter how many times someone tries to explain time signatures to me, it makes no sense. I don’t understand why people place such importance on it. To me, notes have a pitch and a duration, maybe some dynamics. That’s it. I don’t understand why people try to needlessly complicate it. It doesn’t give you anything.
My wife will hear a song and go “Oh neat, it’s in 5/8.” And I’m like “How tf do you know that, and why does it matter?”


Do you find music not amusing, or just can’t “sync up” with others’ peoples opinions of it?
No, it’s not that. Consuming music, having an opinion about it isn’t the issue.
It’s when it comes to MAKING it is when I throw in the towel.