20, trying to figure life out . doing trading, learning dispatching, studying too, its a lot at once. feel like im always in grind mode and forgot how to just enjoy stuff. currently im financially dependent on my parents…

had some bad losses in trading lately, took a short break and now trying to actually fix my risk management before going back in

if you’re older and already been through your 20s, what do you wish someone told you back then? like what actually mattered vs what you thought mattered at the time

also anyone here into manifestation/law of attraction, does it actually work for you? not asking to like wish for money lol, more curious how you actually get into a good headspace and stay there day to day

any advice helps, thanks for reading

[like attracting money , travel etc ]

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    7 hours ago

    I’m afraid the actual advice I’d give myself is something I think most people already know by that point.

    Failing that, “it’s not what you know, it’s who you know”, since there’s the opposite idea around. If you have to choose between a network and actual basic competence, it really looks like the network gets you further, now that I’ve seen more of life. (Both is of course ideal)

    On investments, yeah, a boring diversified portfolio will lead the pack. On the law of attraction, just what about this universe seems like it’s designed to give you want you want? That’s not how anything works; take whatever you do have, and build on it, one day at a time.