20, trying to figure life out . doing trading, learning dispatching, studying too, its a lot at once. feel like im always in grind mode and forgot how to just enjoy stuff. currently im financially dependent on my parents…

had some bad losses in trading lately, took a short break and now trying to actually fix my risk management before going back in

if you’re older and already been through your 20s, what do you wish someone told you back then? like what actually mattered vs what you thought mattered at the time

also anyone here into manifestation/law of attraction, does it actually work for you? not asking to like wish for money lol, more curious how you actually get into a good headspace and stay there day to day

any advice helps, thanks for reading

[like attracting money , travel etc ]

  • RBWells@lemmy.world
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    14 hours ago

    In my experience - manifestation kind of works by changing your focus, you notice opportunities that you might have missed. Though I once manifested a board for our bed by saying I need a board for the bed then opening the door and there was a big board propped up in an alley, and another time a big cardboard box for baby chicks sort of the same way, just looked around wherever I went and found one the same day.

    I don’t think it works like that for money, you aren’t going to find it in the alley, but focusing on it can help you get a better job because you are telling people you need one (networking) and open to opportunities to make more money.

    Same with wanting a boyfriend/girlfriend. Having that energy, the openness to experience attracts more people.

    • Tiral@lemmy.world
      1·
      14 hours ago

      I know exactly what you mean. I have a coffee table that cleans itself every night. There were a few nights s made a huge mess, like I let it have it, and it was still clean in the morning. I do the same with laundry, I put a basket of cloths on top of the machine and within a day or two they’re all folded nice and clean on top.