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architectonas@lemmy.world to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 2 days ago

How often do you watch porn?

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How often do you watch porn?

architectonas@lemmy.world to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 2 days ago
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  • RBWells@lemmy.world
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    Like a lot of the responses here, I don’t like much video porn, it’s more funny than sexy.

    Written erotica, that can be so hot, but still not often. Mostly when I need it, imagination is the way to go.

  • Girl Named ZERO@piefed.zeromedia.vip
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    Somewhere between “every other day” and “every other week”

    • Macallan@lemmy.world
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      Same.

  • GreatWhiteBuffalo41@slrpnk.net
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    It’s probably been years. I prefer to read my porn. My brain just can’t get around the fact that so much porn is non consensual, there’s a lot of human trafficking, and even the ones who do consent aren’t usually being paid well. And there’s not a very good way to sus out the more ethical to the less ethical porn. Also the second someone starts obviously faking things, it ruins everything for me so, reading it is just significantly easier for me.

    • Jo Miran@lemmy.ml
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      I recommend Lustery.

      • GreatWhiteBuffalo41@slrpnk.net
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        I’ll have to check it out, thanks

    • GreenKnight23@lemmy.world
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      My brain just can’t get around the fact that so much porn is non consensual, there’s a lot of human trafficking, and even the ones who do consent aren’t usually being paid well.

      some folks pay extra for that.

  • velma@sh.itjust.works
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    It varies as with anything in life. Sometimes it’s every day, sometimes I’ll go months without.

    • MightyCuriosity@sh.itjust.works
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      Seconded!

  • Sailor Anarres@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    Not at all mainly read erotica instead.

    • RFKJrsBrainworm@sh.itjust.works
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      Any suggestions other than Literotica

      • velma@sh.itjust.works
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        I would poke around “romantasy” style fiction books. There’s a lot of erotica in there and a pretty large fan base.

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    Occasionally. It’s frustrating that most free porn sites are kind of bad at search and filter. You’d think a tagging system would be easy to implement but most sites seem to just have a barely functional search.

  • Jo Miran@lemmy.ml
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    My wife and I used to watch porn very often. Nowadays it’s almost never. I cannot speak for her but for me the fakeness of it all became very cringey for me. Now, if I do watch, I stick to Lustery. It’s a site that focuses on real couples. Watching loving couples laughing and enjoying each other is a lot hotter to me than most of the fake stuff out there.

    Hilariously, many couples post travel vlogs with a sprinkle of sex in the end. I tend to watch the travel bit and skip the sex because I’m far more interested in the non-touristy places they go because the income comes from the porn bit rather than trying to be an influencer.

    • SubArcticTundra@lemmy.ml
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      the non-touristy places they go because the income comes from the porn bit rather than trying to be an influencer.

      That’s actually so clever! Paid to do what you love, on both fronts

    • velma@sh.itjust.works
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      Watching loving couples laughing and enjoying each other is a lot hotter to me than most of the fake stuff out there.

      So hot! I’ve really enjoyed the evolution of porn in this way. So many candid, loving couples having fun together!

    • Poem_for_your_sprog@lemmy.world
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      Where are these at?

      • Jo Miran@lemmy.ml
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        In Lustery.

  • exaybachae@startrek.website
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    I see tits everywhere…

  • DigDoug@lemmy.world
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    Every day.

  • SubArcticTundra@lemmy.ml
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    I’ve toned down the porn and trained my brain to settle (usually) for clothed images of hot people and its imagination. It feels better and it leaves more room for escalation

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    Maybe once per month? Probably less. I really tend to prefer audio and text.

  • GreenKnight23@lemmy.world
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    hourly.

  • TheLunatickle@lemmy.zip
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    Alright jim haggerty.

    • sad_detective_man@sopuli.xyz
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      This is one of my favorite bits they do

  • kubofhromoslav@lemmy.world
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    Never.

    • Poem_for_your_sprog@lemmy.world
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      What are you, southern Baptist?

      • kubofhromoslav@lemmy.world
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        Heh, no 😂 I just don’t like it. Erotica art without sex is max that I like in this regard.

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    I prefer audio

    • cRazi_man@europe.pub
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      Is there a podcast you subscribe to or something?

      • Aurenkin@sh.itjust.works
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        Shibby is good as another commenter mentioned. If you don’t mind visiting Reddit there’s an erotic audio sub there that is unfortunately quite good and I don’t really know a better source.

      • Trual@lemmy.world
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        Try shibby, she has her own site

      • velma@sh.itjust.works
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        I’ve heard Dipsea is pretty good! dipseastories.com

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