I’ve always been in that weird space of apparently hella attractive to some and then the complete polar opposite to others, so I’ve experienced both.

[With shitty people] there’s the creepy favouritism, where I’m singled out and expected to be the sexual fantasy and they’re willing to try and manipulate me into getting it. And then on the other side of the coin, there’s the performative cruelty to make sure everyone in the vicinity can see just how unattractive this person finds me.

Either way, if I have to interact with these people, they’re going to make my life difficult.