This question might be too abstract. But it seems like people look for different aspects in romantic relationships. There are the ones that are drawn to opposite traits, ones seeking excitement, ones that wish for a stable anchor in their life, etc. And most of this happens subconsciously – or it does not. Maybe you have a different approach to love. Tell me about it.
I have a strong belief that love is the time you spend with or thinking about someone else.
If you strive to spend time with someone and enjoy them, that is one form of love.