• CharlesDarwin@lemmy.world
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        4
        ·
        7 days ago

        Long ago, my father would inspect hospitals and would have to call in his reports and I’d frequently hear the r-word - in its original form - in those instances, at least originally. And like you say, that word was originally meant as a euphemism since it just means “slowed”.

        A term that was more frequently slung around on our playground, probably more than the r-word was “sped”, which took me a long time to connect with the shorthand for saying SPecial EDucation.

      • Redditmodstouchgrass@lemmy.zip
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        3
        ·
        7 days ago

        Yeah, I’ve never liked the outrage surrounding this because people are such hypocrites. People will censor you for using r*****, but then turn right around and call you an idiot or a moron, as if they aren’t the same thing with the same shitty sentiment behind it.

      • TootTootComingThru@lemmy.world
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        36
        arrow-down
        12
        ·
        8 days ago

        *Noooo don’t call an actual real life monster and a fascist a no no word noooo that makes you just as bad as them nooooo! *

        • braxy29@lemmy.world
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          19
          arrow-down
          5
          ·
          8 days ago

          so calling him any slur is okay, or just this one?

          i mean, fuck that guy, but that word has a heavy and hateful impact on some people. i just think it’s easier for people to ignore that one than to ignore several others, unfortunately.

      • wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        20
        arrow-down
        6
        ·
        8 days ago

        The reason good people don’t need rules is because they wouldn’t violate them even if they did. Using that to rationalize being a jerk is misapplying it.

        If you’re a “good man,” you wouldn’t be using the r-slur in the first place. The exact cognitive dissonance which allows fascists to be fascists is that they believe themselves to be good people and therefore don’t need rules. But instead of actually being good people, they use this as an excuse to be terrible to others.

  • Gaja0@lemmy.zip
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    1
    ·
    4 days ago

    N-word offensiveness comes from the historical marginalization of a group of people.

    Intellect is relative, which is very different. I feel that is the reason why, for me, R is still uncomfortable, but not as offensive? I don’t use the word, but I’ve basically never encountered a deliberate marginalization of the intellectually disabled. The marginalization by race, however…

  • ShaggySnacks@lemmy.myserv.one
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    2
    ·
    7 days ago

    I joined the FBI to [solve crimes/harass minorities] and now I am replying to flame wars on Twitter. I hate my life.

    • Some FBI Agent
      • AbidanYre@lemmy.world
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        13
        ·
        8 days ago

        Hey mods, I didn’t direct the r-word at anyone, specifically mentioned that it’s offensive, and suggested the alternative and legally defensible term googly-eyed chud. I think the automod needs to calm down a bit.

        • Isaac (ieh)@lemmy.world
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          3
          arrow-down
          16
          ·
          8 days ago

          I wasn’t the one who did it, and personally, I think it could have gone either way, but while I don’t think I would have removed that one, I certainly would not argue against its removal. I don’t think the moderator needs to calm down at all. A ban for that comment might’ve been rather much, but a simple removal is perfectly fine.

          • AbidanYre@lemmy.world
            link
            fedilink
            English
            arrow-up
            11
            arrow-down
            1
            ·
            edit-2
            8 days ago

            No one did it. It was automod looking for the existence of a word and ignoring any potential context.

            “<redacted> is offensive” was removed for having the word <redacted> in it. That’s asinine.

            Edit: Apparently all mod activity notifications come from the automod. It’s still asinine to try policing the existence of a word.

            • Isaac (ieh)@lemmy.world
              link
              fedilink
              English
              arrow-up
              1
              arrow-down
              11
              ·
              8 days ago

              Well, this is simply incorrect. I ran across this thread and reported several comments, bringing it to the attention of the moderators, who took action.

              And you are free to have yourr opinions, but again, I suggest complying with the Lemmy.world TOS. If you think the TOS is asinine, that’s fine - as long as you comply with them.

              • ayyy@sh.itjust.works
                link
                fedilink
                arrow-up
                5
                arrow-down
                1
                ·
                8 days ago

                Do you also measure your neighbors’ lawns with a ruler and report them to the HOA? You seem like the type…

                • Isaac (ieh)@lemmy.world
                  link
                  fedilink
                  English
                  arrow-up
                  1
                  arrow-down
                  3
                  ·
                  8 days ago

                  Do you watch police brutality and think, “THIN BLUE LINE! HUAH!!!”? Let’s discuss other stupid things. Or maybe you might stop standing up for bigotry.

  • CharlesDarwin@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    68
    ·
    9 days ago

    Imagine growing up knowing you wanted to be in the FBI to be part of a crack team working on real crimes and then…getting assigned a task like this?

    I mean, what the fuck?

    • Smug_Marmot@lemmy.zip
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      12
      ·
      8 days ago

      “Agent, we have a new assignment for you.”

      “Yes, sir, what will it be this time? Another terrorist group trying to ship in illegal weaponry?”

      “Uh, well… It’s more related to the internet.”

      “Ah, I see, sir. Will this be like the time I infiltrated that human trafficking communication network?”

      “No… Some people on the internet, uh, hurt Mr. Patel’s feelings…”

      “No problem sir, I will take them… wait, what did you say?”

      “You need to create a twi… an ‘X’ account and reply to those who say mean things to Mr. Patel.”

    • LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.world
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      5
      ·
      9 days ago

      I imagine half the people who grow up wanting to be in the FBI would have been caught up in the propaganda/entertainment shows like 24 growing up. The run around shoot bad guys and stop nuclear bombs from being snuck into the country before they blow up (insert large city here). Unless they were really into forensics and like lab work, but there can’t be to many people out there that love science and think the FBI would be the best place to study/learn cool new things

      • Smug_Marmot@lemmy.zip
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        3
        ·
        8 days ago

        but there can’t be to many people out there that love science and think the FBI would be the best place to study/learn cool new things

        On a serious note, in the past few decades, the government has gone to great lengths to attract people like that into these agencies. In the earlier 2000’s, the government realized it had a significant lack of talent compared to the private sector when it came to technology and especially cyber security. The government has a lot of close connections with the private sector, but also worked to directly attract talent too including allowing more competitive salaries or benefits.

        Years ago there were a ton of articles talking about how the FBI had wanted to do away with the federal drug testing requirements when it came to marijuana, because it prevented them from recruiting certain groups.

      • wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        3
        arrow-down
        1
        ·
        8 days ago

        Unless they care about things like countering human trafficking and get into it because they legitimately want to stop evil people and save lives or rescue innocents…

    • dbtng@sh.itjust.works
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      11
      arrow-down
      4
      ·
      8 days ago

      Man, I agree with you, but these are the rules:

      “All posts and comments will be reviewed on a case-by-case basis. This means that some content that violates the rules may be allowed, while other content that does not violate the rules may be removed.”

      How you execute a consistent set of policies when the rules say you don’t have to be consistent is beyond me.

      • foodandart@lemmy.zip
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        9
        arrow-down
        1
        ·
        8 days ago

        LOL! I think it’s one of those “read the room first” situations.

        I’ve always said Kash Patel deserves 100% of the shit the GOP spews thrown right back in his “special needs” face… but that IS a slur against the actual people that are disabled, since Patel isn’t really needing of any special treatment or help… beyond the karmic swift one in the pants he so deserves.

        Which should be given with extreme wit, vigor and prejudice.

        • DillDough@lemmy.zip
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          3
          ·
          7 days ago

          Consider the actual definition of the word not just how it makes you feel…it applies to both Patel personally and his role in the current administration, he is actively retarding our entire law enforcement system as well as the investigation against the single largest, most vile, and most influential criminal organization to ever exist. It can be a slur but it’s not inherently a slur.

    • arak@lemmy.today
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      7
      arrow-down
      3
      ·
      7 days ago

      The mods… Literally half the comments here got censored and banned

      • wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        7
        arrow-down
        6
        ·
        7 days ago

        Because they were using the r-slur? That only makes sense. It’s against the community rules, is it not? The mods here never claimed to be free speech absolutists.

        If you think the problem here is that people aren’t allowed to use the r-slur, you completely missed the point of the article.

        The hypocrisy is the main issue. This admin cries about how people can’t say the r-slur anymore, and then they get butthurt and threaten abuses of power when it’s used against them.

        Weaponizing the FBI against some jerks on the internet is a huge part of the problem too. Enforcing conduct and language standards falls on content moderation teams, not federal law enforcement. That doesn’t mean the whole internet should be the wild west. Unless you’re okay with nazis spouting hate? Because that’s what you’ll get with free speech absolutism.

        So honestly I really don’t get you’re point. Should the mods not remove comments that use slurs, and ban repeat offenders?

        • arak@lemmy.today
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          3
          arrow-down
          3
          ·
          7 days ago

          Literally the same as the post, r slur used and no more free speech.

          • Isaac (ieh)@lemmy.world
            link
            fedilink
            English
            arrow-up
            4
            arrow-down
            5
            ·
            edit-2
            7 days ago

            I suggest using the power of your free speech to walk up in person too anyone of color and using any of those words to their face and see how your “free speech” goes.

            Furthermore, a little reasearch on what “free speech” means and doesn’t mean might be in order.

            What I find interesting is that so many people seem to want to stand up on the side of bigotry and demand their “right” to be a bigot and use bigoted language. I’m not sure that’s really a great look.

            • phutatorius@lemmy.zip
              link
              fedilink
              arrow-up
              1
              arrow-down
              1
              ·
              4 days ago

              and see how your “free speech” goes

              So you are saying that black and brown people are more prone to violence? Sounds racist.

      • foodandart@lemmy.zip
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        5
        arrow-down
        1
        ·
        8 days ago

        NGL, my own autistic brother would call (and has called) Patel a retread.

        As an insult it is less about denigrating actual handicapped folks and more about calling the subject of the insult a specific level of stupid. One that is very often less capable that most people who are disabled.

        God knows my own brother who is on the spectrum could outperfom Patel, simply because he’s an honest, capable man with integrity.

        • phutatorius@lemmy.zip
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          1
          arrow-down
          2
          ·
          4 days ago

          would call (and has called) Patel a retread

          I certainly believe Patel is unsafe under heavy loads and on wet roads.

          • foodandart@lemmy.zip
            link
            fedilink
            arrow-up
            1
            ·
            3 days ago

            LOL! Did you see the video of him in front of Sen John Kennedy and doubling down on the whole bestiality thing?

            Comic gold.

        • Isaac (ieh)@lemmy.world
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          6
          arrow-down
          5
          ·
          8 days ago

          So? Is ableism by someone on the spectrum supposed to be acceptable? Do I need to find a person who is black to give me permission to use the N word? Maybe I should find a woman to give me permission to be misogynist?

          • foodandart@lemmy.zip
            link
            fedilink
            English
            arrow-up
            3
            arrow-down
            1
            ·
            7 days ago

            That’s not it at all. It’s about not being so high handed to assume someone with disabilities needs you to define what they will - or will not be - offended by. I as a woman give you permission to be the biggest misogynist on the planet if it gives you a chubby, knock yourself out! Then again, I can be a total raging cunt and don’t give a shit if you are.

            You are not and will never be responsible for my emotions.

            • Isaac (ieh)@lemmy.world
              link
              fedilink
              English
              arrow-up
              2
              arrow-down
              2
              ·
              7 days ago

              Perhaps you misunderstand, so let’s go back to the basics.

              Lemmy.World TOS prohibits the use of, among other things, ableist slurs.

              If you use such slurs, expect to face consequences.

              I am a Lemmy admin, and part of what I do is enforce the TOS when I see violations.

              We may choose to simply remove rule-breaking comments, or hand out temp-bans or perma-bans to those that can’t seem to follow the rules.

              If you cannot follow the rules, I suppose you will eventually find out the consequences for yourself.

              So ultimately, I don’t care if you agree with the TOS or not. Only whether you follow them.

              • foodandart@lemmy.zip
                link
                fedilink
                English
                arrow-up
                2
                arrow-down
                1
                ·
                7 days ago

                When the TOS, as stated, seems ambiguous… it begets the immediate issue between you and I as being that as I have NOT used a slur… as an admin, you find my plainly stated diffidence to “white knighting” (…as if those with disabilities have no agency…) for others offensive.

                And that’s okay by me.

  • s@piefed.world
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    17
    ·
    9 days ago

    My first read of this headline was that Patel’s orders were for the agents to call him that

      • TootTootComingThru@lemmy.world
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        23
        arrow-down
        5
        ·
        edit-2
        8 days ago

        Counterpoint: I’ll use whatever accurate term I want to describe this googly eyed fascist dipshit cuck I want in real life and this type of finger wagging is detrimental in the long run. I don’t love the word but if you’ve ever called someone lame or an idiot, you’ve also used ableist slurs. Don’t be an asshole in general but this isn’t as big a deal to most people in the meatspace and it’s mostly fine.

        These cunts literally want to disassemble what remains of our democracy and put certain groups in camps, its fine if somebody calls them something that actually hurts their feelings. Because calling them Nazis certainly doesn’t.

        • 🌞 Alexander Daychilde 🌞@lemmy.world
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          4
          arrow-down
          14
          ·
          8 days ago

          The problem is you’re not hurting the ones you want to, and you are hurting people - real poeple - who do not deserve it. It’s like bombing a wedding or school when you want to bomb the terrorists.

          And do we need to discuss how language works? “Colored” used to be the preferred term for people who are Black - the NAACP still has the term in their name from that time. But try calling someone that. In the same way, many of the people who are “retarted” still have the medical diagnosis of “mental retardation”. It doesn’t make the word any less offensive in the same way that calling someone of colour “Colored” is. That’s just how language works. The words you mentioned have passed into common usage.

          So at the VERY BEST, your argument is “I should be able to use offensive and hurtful words because they might become non-offensive in the future” while causing actural, real harm now, and not even accomplishing the goal you want to accomplish anyway.

          As far as how to rescue our country, here are some brief thoughts:

          1. The best way, but one of the hardest, is to try and break through the relentless fascist propaganda and change the minds of those who do actually understand progressive ideas - when it affects them personally. Countless times we hear of them suddenly realizing that abortion is a right when THEIR family needs one, that social safety nets are important when THEIR family needs them. It’s difficult to break through, but this would be the best way if we could.

          2. The second best way is to do the same for all those who have bought into the “both sides” and “politics doesn’t matter” and don’t vote, and get them to vote blue. Even with the current state of the Democratic party with its large establishment contingent that are beholden to the oligarchs like the Republicans all are, we’d see SOME progress with a Democratic super-majority

          3. Encouraging progressive politics. It seems that the DSA is currently becoming a center of power and interest with this idea - enough people are becoming comfortable with the idea of democratic socialism (as opposed to Socialism) that there’s some progress possible here, so we should support that - because the time for progressive politics is the primaries and before that - in the general, it is time for “vote blue no matter who” because the progressive battle might’ve already been lost, but red vs blue is still worth fighting.

          4. The least lovely way for change is by enough people having enough and standing up and taking back our government. This requires MUCH risk. People WILL die almost certainly, and it might not work. But what you NEED for that is enough people out on the streets shutting everything down that action must happen - and you need a plan - and you need people ready to go take over. And to get there, you need massive protests. And to get massive protesets, you need sustained and growing protests. And to get there, you need organization and you need people getting other people to get out and protest, and for that you need people convincing others that it’s something worth our time to do, and to convince others that we CAN make a change and get progressive politics/laws in place. So ti’s a big process. Oh, and most likely, you need some sort of spark for the fire - once everyone is out on the streets, ideally something happens that causes people to lose their shit and stand up and take over.

          So there’s all these things we need to be working on, and none of them involve using ableist slurs that don’t help.

          • Burn_The_Right@lemmy.today
            link
            fedilink
            arrow-up
            3
            arrow-down
            4
            ·
            8 days ago
            1. Use perfectly legal means to exterminate conservatives on an industrial scale. Conservatives despise regulations that protect their water and air. They have removed those “woke” regulations in countless conservative communities, making it perfectly legal to give millions of nazis various forms of rare, difficult to treat terminal diseases. No laws need to be broken to solve the infestation of nazis in these cases.
  • kreskin@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    17
    arrow-down
    1
    ·
    9 days ago

    I’m not making an account on musks shitty fake social network. Hey Patel, you are a complete idiot.

    Heres the old IQ scale so you can reference what that means.

    Moron: IQ of 50–69 (mild impairment) Imbecile: IQ of 20–49 (moderate to severe impairment) Idiot: IQ below 20 (profound impairment)

    http://www.assessmentpsychology.com/iqclassifications.htm

    And any FBI agents who come to my house better bring a signed warrant or you’ll simply be trespassed and told to go fuck yourselves.